Ek tarah ka baccha
Mera naam Harpreet hai. Aur hum agle 5 min bachon ke baare mein baat karenge.
Agar aapne kabhi bachon pe dhyaan diya hai to aapko lagat hoga ke har bacha alag hai, different hai. Koi zyada shararat karta hai, koi chup chaap rehta hai, koi halka sa haath lagane pe rota hai, har bacha alag hota hai. Is nazariye se dekhne mein yeh sach hai - ke har bacha anokha hota hai. Kissi doosre ke samaan nahin. Lekin mein aapse kehna chahata hoon ke duniya mein ek hi tarah ka bacha hota hai.
Sirf ek tarah ka. Lekin iske baare mein batane se pehle mein aapse poochna chahata hoon ke koi bhi aadmi jisko aap safal maante hai, ke haan inhone ne kuch kiya hai zindagi mein. Unmein kya samaanyata hai. Kya cheez hai jo un sab safal logon mein hoti hai? Sochieye zara.
Jo maine dekha hai woh yeh hai ke sab safal log kissi bhi kaam ko poore dhayaan se karte hai. Woh us kaam ko kaafi saalon tak karte rehte hai. Unko woh kaam ko karke khushi milti hai. Thakaavat mehsoos nahin hote. Safal logon ka yeh rahasay aapne dekha hoga. Ab hum waapis aate hai us line par jo maine pehle kahi thi - ke duniya mein ek hi tarah ka bacha hota hai. Jab kissi bhi bachey ko koi aisa kaam mil jaye jo usko interesting lage aur woh usmien kho jaye - tab humein woh bacha dikhta hai. Yeh bacha har bachey ke ander hai. Jiske bhi body, mind development mein koi nukse nahin hai - normal hai. Uske ander yeh bacha chipa hua hai.
Parenting ka ek bada lakshya yeh hai - us bachye ko bahar nikalna. OneKindofChild ko dhoondhna. Yeh lakshya paane ke liye humein zyada mehnat karne ki zaroorat nahin.
Balki kam mehnat karne ke zaroorat hai. Bachon ko kam rokne ki, kam tokne ki. Uski jigyasa ko zinda rakhne ki, uski khud ke seekhne ke aadat ko barkaraar rakhne ki. Chote bachon ke liye yeh kaam hota hai chalna seekhna ya bolna seekhna. Koi unhein sikhata nahin hai. Aap kitni bhi koshish kar lein ke bacha bolna na seekhey par bacha bolna seekh hi jayega, chalna seekh hi jayega.
Aise hi teen saal ki umar ke baad har bachey ko alag alag kaam ki taraf attaraction hota hai. Yeh attraction hum kissi bhi bachey mein bol bol kar nahin laa sakte - keh kar nahin laa sakte ke dhayaan se dekho - yeh khud se aata hai. Kyonki this is needed by our body and mind. Tann aur mann ki zaroorat hai yeh ke bacha koi kaam karne ke taraf aakarshit hota hai.
Bachey to cartoon ki taraf bhi attract hote hai, lekin woh useful nahin hai, kyonki usmein hamari body, hamare haath, hamara dimaag use nahin ho raha. Humein chahiye apne haath se kiya hua kaam jismein bachey ka dimaag bhi istemaal ho raha hai. Kabhi bhi agar aap apne bachey ko dekhein kissi cheez pe dhayaan kendrit karte hue to disturb na karein.
Uska dhayaan kahin laga hua hai, laga rehne dein. Kabhi aap uske saath bahar sair karne jayein aur bacha kahin ruk ke kissi cheez ko touch kar raha hai, dekh raha hai, use dekhne de. Jaldbaazi na karein. Dhayan kendrit hona hi safalta ki sidi ka pehla kadam hai. Paying attention is the first step to success. Aur yeh har bachey mein possible hai, sambhav hai.
Kis cheez mein dhayaan lagega yeh har bachey ke liye different hoga. Aur yeh dhyaan khali woh bacha khud se laga sakta hai. Lekin yeh dhayaan lagane ke liye environment parents, school, teachers, daada daadi, naani naani de sakte hai. Aap apne bachey ko safal dekhna chahate hai, khush dekhna chahate hai.
Yeh possible hai. Iska sabse aasaana rasta hai OneKindofChild ke saath. Har bachey ke saath.
Mera naam Harpreet hai. Aapne mere saath apne bachon ke liye paanch min bitaye iske liye mein aapka shukrguzaar hoon. Phir milenge.
